Saturday, October 1, 2011

I'd rather go, while you're still insistent on laziness.



Have you ever reached a point where you realize that everything you knew about the steps it took to fall for someone, have changed completely? I mean, where was i when it became so..different.

When did it become solely about sex?
At which point did men decide that chivalry made no sense anymore?
When did it get so complicated that everyone felt the need to swear off telling the truth, getting to know someone and being themselves, to get the one they were after.

When did divorce rates start skyrocketing like this?
Why is it so hard to stay faithful?
If you werent ready to put a ban on other women/men forever after that day, why did you bother trying?

It's natural progression to allow for arguments, for disagreements.. throwdown fights.
When did it become okay for anyone to believe that because you avoided these fights, you were making things better?
Do you honestly believe that by pretending to be okay with things you're not, you're squashing the issues?

Sacrifices are definitely needed to ensure harmony at home, but if the things you're sacrificing are ultimately the reasons you're gonna run into the arms of someone else, do you truly believe you've fixed anything at all?

I hate hearing people say they wanna find someone that'll "accept me the way i am"
IF YOU ARE A GRUMPY DOG THAT TREATS ME LIKE SHIT, I WILL NOT "ACCEPT YOU FOR WHO YOU ARE"
no bro, nobody will.
and very honestly, with that attitude? you dont deserve it either.

Wake up, you want respect, RESPECT HER.

Ask her out on a date, take her out for dinner. Some place nice. Hold out her chair, tell her she looks beautiful.
Order water, not beer. Listen to her, stop rambling on like you're the only one with a life at the table. Ask her about herself and stop trying to impress her, cause she doesnt need it. She's already out with you.
There's a fine line between the words impressed and just plain turned-off.
If you need an ego boost, go tell your friends. They won't dump you for being a pig.

You know very well when a girl is interested in you. Or interested in something further than a first date.
If you want a second one, show it. She's not gonna take you seriously unless you do too.
Bring her for a walk and hold her hand.
Send her home and walk her to the door.

You will never go wrong, why?
CAUSE NO GUYS DO THIS ANYMORE.

They've all gotten complacent and lazy. Girls have gotten accustomed to this laziness too.
That's why they sleep with you. on the first date.
worse still, the first time you meet. at a club.


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